You will need white spells candles; 1 for every year you've been together. If you've been together a long time this may not be practical! So just go for 1 for every 5 years and mark each year on the candle so you've still got the symbolism. You will also need paper ">I cherish this moment, it strengthens my love
Keep going up until the present and when your final note is done and placed in the purse, say:
My love is released
I send it to you
Place the notes in the bedroom along with the 1st and that last candle, which you will light again later on in the evening!